Stick #82: Reflection Required (Very Unfavorable)

事有不成须自省,反求诸己是聪明。找出症结勤改正,反思之后路自平。

Plain reading

When things fail, look inward first. Turn back upon yourself to find the knot — amend diligently and the road will level.

Interpretation

This is a very unfavorable lot titled "Reflection Required." When matters fail, examine yourself — the present trouble may spring from within. "Turn inward; find the knot; amend diligently" shows reflection is exit; change levels the road.

Advice

Each night write three lines: "where I could change today" — blame not others but self. Ask those who criticized you; they often show the true knot.

From Mencius: "When action fails, turn back upon oneself" — noble people in trouble first examine themselves; reflection is the turn.

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